We’ve updated our Terms of Use to reflect our new entity name and address. You can review the changes here.
We’ve updated our Terms of Use. You can review the changes here.

It's Hard To Be A Feminist (Live Version)

from Live at the Independent by Rachel Lark

/
  • Streaming + Download

    Includes unlimited streaming via the free Bandcamp app, plus high-quality download in MP3, FLAC and more.
    Purchasable with gift card

      $1 USD  or more

     

  • T-Shirt/Shirt

    Stay cool with this fun printed short sleeve button down shirt. Bring a relaxed Hawaiian energy to your day to day fashion.

    100% Polyester Poplin
    Cotton hand-feel
    Button placket
    Regular fit
    Spread collar
    High definition printing colors
    ships out within 5 days

      $40 USD or more 

     

  • T-Shirt/Shirt

    Made to move with you, our athletic crop top gives freedom to your creativity and yoga practice! This printed crop top is perfect for working out or wearing out and about.

    • Made from EcoPoly Fiber (88% polyester, 12% spandex), an eco-friendly performance knit fabric manufactured in Canada. Chlorine resistant.
    Machine washable and dryable. Do not bleach. Ultra-stretch fabric holds shape even after multiple wearings and print will not fade with washing.
    • Printed and sewn by hand in Montreal, Canada
    • Athletic crop top hem falls about 1-2” above the belly button on most people
    ships out within 5 days

      $30 USD or more 

     

  • Other Apparel

    The track pants are your new go-to piece for working out or styling a streetwear outfit. Printed on demand just for you.

    • Lightweight, water-resistant fabric (100% polyester)
    • Fully lined, mesh lining
    • Elastic waistband and ankle cuffs, relaxed fit and zip pockets
    Size guide

    WAIST (inches) INSEAM LENGTH (inches)
    XS 25 28
    S 27 28 ¼
    M 29 ½ 28 ¾
    L 32 29 ¼
    XL 35 29 ½
    2XL 36 ½ 30
    3XL 39 30 ¼
    ships out within 15 days

      $45 USD or more 

     

lyrics

It's hard to be a feminist and still want dick
It's hard to care what other people think and still be over it
It's hard to be objectified just the right amount
And sometimes still have sex with dudes when they deserve to be called out
Yup

I'm an educated woman and I know my stuff
But I like my lovers with a little scruff
If I could take a pill that would remove this curse
I'd never talk to straight men 'cause they're the worst

Men kill people, men start wars
But at the same time they're totes adorbs
I worry fucking subjugators makes me a traitor
And then I get wet and decide to think about it later

It's hard to be a feminist and still want dick
It's hard to care what other people think and still be over it
It's hard to be objectified just the right amount
And sometimes still have sex with dudes when they deserve to be called out

I'm not a man-hater I'm sad to say
Look, patriarchy is great for a lay
We can have a bunch of sex if we speak bluntly
We can have even more if we're quiet and hungry

I spend my days making life harder
For guys who don't acknowledge their inherent power
But night comes around and it’s time to relax
I'm sick of talking
I just want some ass

It's hard to be a feminist and still want dick
It's hard to care what other people think and still be over it
It's hard to be objectified just the right amount
And sometimes still have sex with dudes when they deserve to be called out

My inner Steinem wants to object
But my inner broken hymen says he's so erect
I wanna write a think piece for Jezebel
About this problematic blowjob and my special place in hell

When it's all over it’s time to take stock
Were all these compromises worth five minutes of cock

I don't want to slut-shame anyone
But come on Rachel, what have you done

It's hard to be a feminist and still want dick
It's hard to care what other people think and still be over it
It's hard to be objectified just the right amount
And sometimes still have sex with dudes
I really like having sex with dudes
Earlier today I had some sex with dudes
I yell and then I have sex with dudes
When they deserve to be called out

credits

from Live at the Independent, released April 21, 2023
Co-written with Kate Willett

license

all rights reserved

tags

about

Rachel Lark California

💕🔥songwriter and love critic🔥💕
creator of Coming Soon: A New Rock Musical

contact / help

Contact Rachel Lark

Streaming and
Download help

Redeem code

Report this track or account