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lyrics

It's confusing being a boy
Wanting to fuck everything in sight
Sometimes it's an inner fight
Yeah some girls
They'll play with my head
They'll say they want in one minute then change their minds when they're already in bed
It's not fair, no really it's such a tease
These girls need to learn to clearly express their wants and needs
They change their minds so how's a guy to know
is she playing games or does "No" really mean No?

Well...
If you're not sure it's not rape, don't do it!
If it feels a little bit rapey just don't do it!
Yeah if you're not sure that it ain't, then leave your dick right next to your taint yeah if you're not sure it's not rape then just don't do it!

It's confusing being a bro!
Girls can fuck whoever they want. They really run the show.
They lead us on, and accept our drinks!
Yeah, they're asking for it, then they act surprised! It happens more than you think!
It's not fair!
No really, it's such a tease
These girls need to learn to clearly express their wants and needs
so hold a workshop! Teach these girls right now how to say no, 'cause clearly they don't know how!

Well...
If you're not sure it's not rape, don't do it!
If it feels a little bit rapey just don't do it!
Yeah if you're not sure that it ain't, then leave your dick right next to your taint yeah if you're not sure it's not rape then just don't do it!

If you're thinking that you wanna fuck someone
I ain't trying to ruin your fun
All that you gotta do
Is make sure they wanna fuck you back
Yeah, make sure they wanna fuck you back
Yeah, make damn motherfucking sure they wanna fuck you back

Oh yeah you're looking for that eye contact
And that deliberate touch that wants you to touch back
Those sighs of pleasure, ooh the release of tension
Because you see it's very important for me to mention
that some women have internalized their sexual objectification
Which can sometimes lead to some bodily alienation
And add to that the likelihood of trauma (about 1 in 3)
And you've got yourself what I would call a perfect recipe
for some fear and confusion greetin' you in that bad
Suddenly you're an intrusion in their body and in their head
A freeze response is just one reason that women might not say "no"
So before you penetrate somebody else you should make sure fo sho
Yeah the rules are very simple
And this is how you play
Don't fuck someone who ain't on board 100% of the way

Now boys I know that things can be real hard for you too.
Women lead you on sometimes, yes it's true.
And being disappointed is never any fun.
And sortin' these things out is easier said than done.
Well I'm not trying to belittle it.
Here's your small violin you can fiddle it.
It's just fucking consent, so deal with it!
Lesson 2 will be how to find the clit

I'm sick and tired of having this basic conversation,
but women are still being forced into sex all over the whole nation.
And I'm tired, so tired.
When will it end?
Maybe they just don't see these wounds that won't mend.
What will it take?
To get this to change?
I bare my soul and tell my story every fuckin' day.
"No means no" is simple enough
but "Yes means yes" is what we need more of

Well if you're not sure it's not rape, don't do it!
If it seems a little bit rapey, just don't do it!
If you're not sure that it ain't, leave your dick right next to your taint.
Yeah if that girl is underage, leave your dick right next to your taint.
Yeah if she's asleep on the couch, leave your dick right next to your taint.
Yeah if she’s had six or seven beers, leave your dick right next to your taint.
Yeah, if you're not sure if it's rape then just don't do it!

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from Vagenius, released October 6, 2015

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